Beginning of a painting. |
Hello again.
Hope everyone's summer is going well.
Life here at Sherrill Studios is starting to gear up again.
I have spent the last few weeks worrying about some things that made it impossible for me to paint. Sometimes it happens that way. I hit those places in my brain that make it impossible to paint.
But, I seem to be letting up on the concerns and
painting is coming a little easier.
Yesterday, I started the day out with this lovely goat.
I know that he has some issues, but I think he has possibilities.
So...half a goat...
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Yesterday, I started the day out with this lovely goat.
I know that he has some issues, but I think he has possibilities.
So...half a goat...
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If you remember, in the last blog I pointed out that we needed to make memories with and for our family & friends.
I had that opportunity come up for me in this last week.
I had it in spades.
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A very, very long time ago....
in a land far, far away....
I went to high school with (along with a few other hundred people) Scott Smith & LaRhonda Davis. They married soon after Wayne & I did and started having children right off the bat.
Wayne and I...not so much. We had to wait a while.
I learned so much from watching them parent.
Things that I stored up for when I had a child.
We lived on the north end of the state and they lived in Kokomo,
but we socialized when we came to visit.
We played cards and hung out.
Had a great time.
Brandon was born and it was just the best.
I became his self proclaimed GODmother.
Fast forward...10 years or so.
We each had two kids and all the problems & joys that come with them.
I was still learning parenting skills from watching the Smiths.
Their children were older than ours, so they met & conquered situations that I would have to deal with later.
Fast forward again...
As sometimes happens (happened to me...) the Smiths ended their relationship with a divorce. Their boys have grown up to be fine young men with families of their own. I am proud of them both.
This last weekend Brandon, Scott & Brandon's son Kaiden
came to visit from the southern states.
Scott's mother is ill & they came to see her in the.
I couldn't wait to see Brandon & meet his son.
I had that opportunity come up for me in this last week.
I had it in spades.
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A very, very long time ago....
in a land far, far away....
I went to high school with (along with a few other hundred people) Scott Smith & LaRhonda Davis. They married soon after Wayne & I did and started having children right off the bat.
Wayne and I...not so much. We had to wait a while.
I learned so much from watching them parent.
Things that I stored up for when I had a child.
We lived on the north end of the state and they lived in Kokomo,
but we socialized when we came to visit.
We played cards and hung out.
Had a great time.
Brandon was born and it was just the best.
I became his self proclaimed GODmother.
Fast forward...10 years or so.
We each had two kids and all the problems & joys that come with them.
I was still learning parenting skills from watching the Smiths.
Their children were older than ours, so they met & conquered situations that I would have to deal with later.
Fast forward again...
As sometimes happens (happened to me...) the Smiths ended their relationship with a divorce. Their boys have grown up to be fine young men with families of their own. I am proud of them both.
This last weekend Brandon, Scott & Brandon's son Kaiden
came to visit from the southern states.
Scott's mother is ill & they came to see her in the.
I couldn't wait to see Brandon & meet his son.
Kaiden and his dad shooting us in the pool. He wouldn't get in. He said it was too deep. |
I invited them over for pool time and to meet Leia.
Leia & Kaiden are only a month apart, so we thought they would hit it off.
And they did.
We had one of Leia's favorite meals, hot dogs, cheesy poofs & chocolate milk after we got out of the pool.
I enjoyed this visit SO MUCH.
During the time that they were here
I was able to take some three generation photos.
Again, Scott & Ronnie gave me a glimpse into what I hope will be my future.
What did I see?
I saw a comfort level that I have not yet achieved.
I saw two divorced adults treating each other with respect & dignity.
Not because they had to, but because that is what you do for your kids.
They gave me hope.
Leia & Kaiden are only a month apart, so we thought they would hit it off.
And they did.
We had one of Leia's favorite meals, hot dogs, cheesy poofs & chocolate milk after we got out of the pool.
He drank TWO glasses of chocolate milk. |
He looks just like his dad did when he was little... |
During the time that they were here
I was able to take some three generation photos.
Again, Scott & Ronnie gave me a glimpse into what I hope will be my future.
What did I see?
I saw a comfort level that I have not yet achieved.
I saw two divorced adults treating each other with respect & dignity.
Not because they had to, but because that is what you do for your kids.
They gave me hope.
Brandon, Kainden & Scott Smith Three Generations |
Brandon, Kaiden & Ronnie Three generations |
Family, in the end, is everything, isn't it?
That is what makes us strong, individually & as part of a group.
It's where we go when times are hard.
It's who we celebrate with.
It gives us our sense of self.
Thank you for reading.
I'll see you all again, soon.